An abortion is a loss that can generate extreme psychological consequences depending on the character of the woman. After an abortion a painful feeling appears that causes a very deep sadness, you can even get to depression. There are women who experience quite difficult feelings to define, in which anxiety, fear, nostalgia, guilt, etc. can be mixed, but this always depends on the character of the woman and the moment she is living, there is always women who face this loss much better than others.
In order to face this situation, family support, understanding, respect for the pain the woman feels is very important. Love, affection and understanding are fundamental for a recovery, there is a saying that time heals everything, in part it is true, but it is necessary that this be coupled with the support of the family and the circle of friendships, otherwise It is easy to plunge into an eternal depression. When this stage is over, the woman can try the pregnancy again, there are women who manage to overcome an abortion in three months, others until after a year they do not succeed and in a few cases some years can pass. The psychological level is really important to recover from a loss, we are talking about a desired pregnancy, we do not mean that interrupting an unwanted pregnancy does not cause suffering, but they are different consequences and different facts.
When a loss is suffered and subsequently attempted to face a new pregnancy, it is very important to have the support of the closest people, to feel the strength, the illusion, the courage, the hope and the energy that they want to transmit to us, to move away from the people who are pessimistic and negative, since the only thing they do is to weaken the psychological forces of those who want to try to be a mother again.
In addition, you have to be very confident despite possible fears and never establish a comparison between current and previous pregnancy. Some specialists recommend some rules to follow that are beneficial, such as trying to feel good every day, being optimistic, not suffering uselessly when there is no solution, being aware of the fact that happiness is in your hands and that any situation can be traced, encourage to the maximum your sense of humor and above all to be excited every day and every moment, which will foster very good spirits, a lot of security and confidence among other things.
